About 3 years ago I was at the doctor’s office and my doctor said, “do you want to talk about fertility?” and I said no. Here we are 3 years later and we still haven’t talked about it.
For some reason there is a foot on the gas approach to having children and getting married. Even our providers are having these conversations earlier. I don’t suspect any ill will but I do see how these conversations can make someone feel pressured to hurry up, get married, and/or have kids before it’s time.
I don’t want to be someone who hurries love just to beat some invisible clock.
That clock is the world’s clock not God’s clock. He is the author and initiator of All things.
So hurrying love is not the answer. It’s not worth it to jump ahead of schedule or to do things in your own time.
God’s timing is best. I want what He has for me, at the time He has chosen.
You can’t hurry love. It is better to wait.