I was having a conversation with someone recently and they said I was a queen and needed a crown. In true Tiffani fashion I said (because I do), “I already have a crown.”
You have to know who you are.
I learned this more than anything last year when my identity was challenged in all areas of my life – my views, my ways, who I was and where I came from. I remember people saying “no you’re not” after I had explained who I was.
It’s easy to believe what people say about you if don’t know who you are.
It’s also easy to get trapped in a bad situation when you haven’t fleshed out your values and don’t know your worth.
Don’t let someone else determine your worth. Know it for yourself. So if someone comes along and doesn’t know your worth, they stand out like a puff coat on hot day.
Knowledge of self is so important when determining who could be a potential life partner. While no one is perfect, there are people out there with good qualities who still aren’t a good fit. Knowing you means knowing what works for you and what doesn’t.
Stay strong during this love season. Don’t feel pressured to move in the wrong direction just to have someone on the day.
Choose you. Decide what want, become that, and hopefully it’ll come your way soon.
Until then….dust off your crown! Put it back on and don’t let anyone define you. You define you. Be your best self and watch God’s blessings overflow in your life!